Do you have feelings for a certain guy?
Sometimes you have a thought that he does like you back, but you’re not really sure.
Well, you’re not the only one!
Unlike women, guys are complex creatures when it comes expressing their feelings. Especially if he is interested in someone, the initial emotions bottled up inside usually scare him off.
You may have a hard time reading your love interest’s signals.
“Is he afraid of his feelings for me,” some often ask me this question. Probably he is too nervous about making a move or cannot accept being rejected. There are actually many reasons why he has yet confessed his feelings to you.
4 Common Signs He’s Hiding His Feelings for You
If you are reading this, you may have a thought that the guy you love also falls for you, but maybe the fear is holding him back.
Is it true that he’s avoiding his feelings for you?
- Perhaps you and he are best friends, and he’s worried about ruining that friendship
- Perhaps both of you just currently broken up with exes
- Perhaps he is an emotionally unavailable man in love that makes things complicated
- Perhaps he is not sure whether or not he wants something serious with you, so he’s still hesitant
Keep in mind that he’s not distant from you; indeed he is facing new emotions without knowing how to handle them effectively. Therefore, hope what I’m about to write can give you the answer you’re looking for.
Following are the clear signs he likes you, but unable to reveal:
#1: He’s staring at you
Do you have a sense that someone is watching you from a corner of the room?
Yes, guys have tendency to give the girl they like an intense, passionate stare that could quickly grab her attention; nevertheless, she can’t determine their feelings as it’s just a stare.
If you know that your love interest is looking at you, don’t lift your head up or you will ruin the moment. If he realizes you know he’s watching you, he will immediately look somewhere else because he does not want to admit yet.
#2: He has an emotional battle inside
“Should I, or shouldn’t I?”
If he keeps repeating this question, meaning he truly cares for you but is afraid of making the approach. Don’t get surprised when your man seems to be loving, kind and caring in one moment and then he acts distant and cold suddenly.
Due to the endless battle inside him, he often sends you mixed signals. The result is that you are not sure how to react and will surely wonder whether or not he is going to let you in.
Should you leave him because you think he is not obvious, or do you still stick with him patiently until he realizes his feelings for you? It’s up to you! You may also want to see how to ignore emotionally unavailable men!
#3: He won’t take the initiative
You feel like he does like you.
All the signs he brings on display somewhat convince you, but the thing is that he hasn’t make the first move yet. Well, women have a special capacity of sensing if a guy has interest in someone or not – from the way he looks and the way he talks.
If he has feelings for you, why doesn’t he admit he likes you?
Already said, he doesn’t take the first step is because he scares though he really wants to. Maybe he went through heartbreak in the past, or probably he thinks he is not good enough to deserve you.
#4: He’s sweating when you’re around
We tend to be sweaty when we are nervous or face new things in life.
So, it’s understandable if you see your love interest is anxious and sweaty during the first date with you. He will try his best to show his truest self; however, at the same time he can’t help but showing all symptoms of nervousness.
As he is just showing you one of signs he cares but is afraid of his feelings, please respect him. The best thing you can do is to calm him down by asking some questions about him or smiling at his jokes.
Don’t be too harsh on him or he will choose someone else over you!
These are some of the signs he is fighting his feelings for you.
If you want to know exactly if a guy likes you, then just ask him.
No need to worry! You can take advantage of some proven signs of men’s attraction in case you are not brave enough to make the first move.
In general, whether he has feelings for you or not, you can feel that. Never quickly conclude that he is behaving distant from you, maybe he’s just afraid of showing you his admiration. Be a little more patient as he could be your soulmate after all!
If you are completely confident with the fact he likes you, let him know it is ok to approach you and that you want him to confess his love.
It’s just the matter of time!