What are sweet things to say to your ex boyfriend to get him back?
It’s hard to forget memories about our ex-lovers – they always linger and live with us over the years. Although we tell ourselves not to remember anything about them anymore, their image keeps running in our mind every time we see them.
If letting your ex-boyfriend go seems hopeless to you, then the best way is to make him to come back. But, make sure the feelings are mutual as you can’t force him to love you again.
How to start a conversation with your ex in an impressive way?
Let’s find out…!
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What to Say to Your Ex for Him to Come Back?
Here are some impressive things you can talk to him so that he will get captivated to you like the first time:
1. "I’m sorry"
Sometimes saying something as simple as "I’m sorry" can rekindle the bond between you and your ex.
Are you the reason for the relationship to crash down? If yes, then take your responsibility for the failure by apologizing to him. Put down your ego and be open about your mistake in the past. Don’t let your big pride get in the way, or things between the two of you only get worse.
If you’re afraid of meeting him in person, simply text him and tell how genuinely sorry you are. Make a clear and direct message. Don’t forget to tell him that you are ready to change yourself better or willing to work hard on this relationship. If your ex still has feelings for you and wants you to come back to him as well, then you will get a positive response.
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2. "I miss this day so much"
You and your ex-boyfriend had suffered from an awful breakup, and that unfortunately left emotional scars on him. How to get him to get back to you? My advice is to remind him of blissful, happy moments that you two share together. According to some love researchers, thinking about happy time in a relationship is significant for the healing process.
Send him a photo of you and him smiling ears to ears and a text like "I miss this day so much," or "do you remember this time?"
3. "Can you please do me a favor?"
Another effective way to get back with your ex is to ask for advice.
Men usually feel good when their partners rely on him. So, make your ex have that same feeling by asking for his advice on something he is good at or holds expertise in. For example, you can text him something like "my younger bro has some problems with his chemistry homework, are you free now and can you help him?"
But, please note that you can apply this tip for anyone. If you and your ex are still having friendly terms after the breakup, then it’s okay to use. Otherwise, never think of using it if both have hard feelings for each other.
4. "This reminds me of you"
If you want your ex boyfriend to come back, one of the most essential things is to make him smile. What sweet things should you say to him? Make your text all about him and he will reply you back!
For instance, tell him, "yesterday I visited a bookstore and then the new copy of The Amazing Spider-Man was there. This really reminded me of you because I still remember how much you cry for the movie’s ending." Or, "hey, do you remember the store that having your favorite hoodie jacket? Last time it was sold out but it seems like they restock again at an amazing price. Make sure to check it out!"
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We all know that men love compliments, right? Use this chance to send him a congratulate text or simply make a call and congratulate him on his achievements. This is a great way to make you both feel comfortable and you can easily initiate the conversation.
Just one text "congrats" and you can boost his ego. You can add something encouraging like, "I know you could do it" or "Did you make that cake? I want to try it!"
Most importantly, don’t turn it into an essay! Keep your message short and brief.
6. Tell him a joke or funny accident
In order to bring his guard down, my suggestion is that you should take advantage of your witty sense. Most of men say that they like being around funny girls. So, bring out your humor and your ex-boyfriend will soon feel easy talking to you.
Not to say that he will get re-captivated by you.
Once you have successfully built a foundation with him, now it’s time to indulge in some casual conversations. For example, show him some funny memes that you came across on the social media or tell him about a hilarious incident that happened with you a few days ago.
7. Make him realize that you’ve changed
Don’t keep being funny!
To get him back, you must delve into something serious. In this case, say something making him realize that you’ve become a mature person with better thoughts and that you’ve changed positively.
Don’t speak to him the same old way as you used to in the past, or it will only send him more insecure feelings about you. That ends up with him being less interested in you and completely moving on. Later when you make calls again, he will wonder whether or not he should keep contact with you.
To make him come back into your life successfully, give him a sense that you have changed into a better person.
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