Do you have feelings for a certain guy?
Sometimes you have a thought that he does like you back, but you’re not really sure.
Well, you’re not the only one!
“Is he afraid of his feelings for me,” some often ask me this question. Probably he is too nervous about making a move or cannot accept being rejected. There are actually many reasons why he has yet confessed his feelings to you.
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Unlike women, guys are complex creatures when it comes expressing their feelings. Especially if he is interested in someone, the initial emotions bottled up inside usually scare him off.
You may have a hard time reading your love interest’s signals.
4 Common Signs He’s Hiding His Feelings for You
If you are reading this, you may have a thought that the guy you love also falls for you, but maybe the fear is holding him back.
Is it true that he’s avoiding his feelings for you?
- Perhaps you and he are best friends, and he’s worried about ruining that friendship
- Perhaps both of you just currently broken up with exes
- Perhaps he is an emotionally unavailable man in love that makes things complicated
- Perhaps he is not sure whether or not he wants something serious with you, so he’s still hesitant
Keep in mind that he’s not distant from you; indeed he is facing new emotions without knowing how to handle them effectively. Therefore, hope what I’m about to write can give you the answer you’re looking for.
Following are the clear signs he likes you, but unable to reveal:
#1: He’s staring at you
Do you have a sense that someone is watching you from a corner of the room?
Yes, guys have tendency to give the girl they like an intense, passionate stare that could quickly grab her attention; nevertheless, she can’t determine their feelings as it’s just a stare.
If you know that your love interest is looking at you, don’t lift your head up or you will ruin the moment. If he realizes you know he’s watching you, he will immediately look somewhere else because he does not want to admit yet.
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#2: He has an emotional battle inside
“Should I, or shouldn’t I?”
If he keeps repeating this question, meaning that person truly cares for you but is afraid of making the approach. Don’t get surprised when your man seems to be loving, kind and caring in one moment and then he acts distant and cold suddenly.
Due to the endless battle inside him, he often sends you mixed signals. The result is that you are not sure how to react and will surely wonder whether or not he is going to let you in.
Should you leave him because you think he is not obvious, or do you still stick with him patiently until he realizes his feelings for you? It’s up to you! You may also want to see how to ignore emotionally unavailable men!
#3: He won’t take the initiative
You feel like he does like you.
All the signs he brings on display somewhat convince you, but the thing is that he hasn’t make the first move yet. Well, women have a special capacity of sensing if a guy has interest in someone or not – from the way he looks and the way he talks.
If he has feelings for you, why doesn’t he admit he likes you?
Already said, he doesn’t take the first step is because he scares though he really wants to. Maybe he went through heartbreak in the past, or probably he thinks he is not good enough to deserve you.
#4: He’s sweating when you’re around
We tend to be sweaty when we are nervous or face new things in life.
So, it’s understandable if you see your love interest is anxious and sweaty during the first date with you. He will try his best to show his truest self; however, at the same time he can’t help but showing all symptoms of nervousness.
As he is just showing you one of signs he cares but is afraid of his feelings, please respect him. The best thing you can do is to calm him down by asking some questions about him or smiling at his jokes.
Don’t be too harsh on him or he will choose someone else over you!
These are some of the signs he is fighting his feelings for you.
If you want to know exactly if a guy likes you, then just ask him.
No need to worry! You can take advantage of some proven signs of men’s attraction in case you are not brave enough to make the first move.
In general, whether he has feelings for you or not, you can feel that. Never quickly conclude that he is behaving distant from you, maybe he’s just afraid of showing you his admiration. Be a little more patient as he could be your soulmate after all!
If you are completely confident with the fact he likes you, let him know it is ok to approach you and that you want him to confess his love.
It’s just the matter of time!
Nina Yapea says
I am in a relationship with someone who is married & I really like him
Adrian McKinney says
– Don’t fuel these feelings. Don’t entertain the feelings, don’t sit around creating scenarios in your head, don’t even come here on Quora asking what you should do, you know very well what you should do!
– Respect him enough to not meddle and not divulge these things. He has taken a vow that he should keep. He needs to respect that vow, we should all respect people’s vows.
– Acknowledge that while you may not have power over how you feel you do have power over your actions. Act as if you did NOT love him because that is proper (it’s not your fault if a bird flies over your head, it is if you allow it to make a nest in it.)
– Get busy!! Take on another job, other courses, volunteer, do something where you can really spend yourslef and distance yourself from this man. Nothing like keeping busy to keep us from doing stupid things we’ll regret later.
– Know that no matter how tempting it may seem right now to pursue his attention and affection, it will only lead to regret and emptiness and disappointment in the long-run…so why pursue it!
I had met a man last year when I was transitioning to a divorce. He was kind and informed then that he was set in his ways which to me meant that he has habits he is not willing to change. He is single never married and had his first long term relation 4 years prior broke it off from what he says she did not want to leave the city. From then on he has not dated or anything want to be alone. He claims he never did good with relationships. Well several months later ran into him twice in one week 2nd time I was out running he was driving pass me where I work at we got to taliking talked about what was going on with me and that I was looking for a place to live etc. We would text back and forth from time to time I would invite myself over to his place to chat for something to do all innocent nothing happened he told me some personal stuff as did I. I thought we were on our way to just a friendship. He was always extremely nervous around me I would try to get him to sit to talk but he never would. Well i tried to get him to do stuff take a walk in the woods to look for mushrooms stuff like a friend would do, nothing he would always blow me off. I didn’t think anything of it at the time other than he being shy. I was wrong because i was going through my own shit I did write him letters humorous about stuff I was doing just to have someone to talk to and get a laugh out of him. I figured it out after one day I decide to tell him I have deep feeling for him that if he wanted more I would be open to it, but I never got pass deep feelings before he kinda freaked he went on about him being set in his ways that we were just friendly aquaintences, that stunned me I thought we were a little more than that especailly after sharing each others tragedy, and that I will find someone that give me everything then he wanted to know how I like my new vehicle and that I should be working on getting this old house I want to restore and that I should not be doing dating sites etc. a freak out. I stayed calm and listened and told him not to sell himself short. The whole comversation was out their to say the least. I wrote him one last letter to let him know that I would not be writing him anymore and that I was sorry for making him uncomfortable. I felt bad for him so broken that he wanted to be alone for the rest of his life because of one person I just don’t get it. I come from a small town so i’m sure I will run into him and not sure how to approach it I think to ignore someone like that would break my heart to see his pain. I know I am to kind but that is what make me strong and its easy for me to move on but I still feel really bad for this man and can’t get him out of my head.
We were friends but secretly I think it was more with him. He hid his feelings.
I became more into him and he backed off. One day he stood staring for a couple of minutes and then repeated it. I stared back just the same.
We are not talking much, the occasional hello. Now he told a friend of his I was stuck on a his friend because I was hanging with him for a couple of hours
His friend told me that.
Then he became silent but he did hang around.
He kept to himself.
How can this guy like me without any interaction. I just feel it’s not really over..
Adrian McKinney says
Talk to him.
Not everyone is comfortable with expressing their feelings. Make him comfortable with doing so by letting him know it’s okay to talk about his feelings.
Start with your own, as an example: “I feel..about this…” and so on. Don’t make him feel like he’s being put into a corner.
And don’t expect him to give it all up at once and get disappointed by it.