Have you ever questioned about your man’s distance?
Sometimes he suddenly acts a little detached and withdrawn – this behavior of course makes you wonder if he’s no longer interested in you.
However, it’s not always the case!
Unlike women, men are not good at expressing their feelings and often overly worry about their hidden emotions. If you are reading this article, you probably know that your love interest does like you but it seems like there’s something holding him back.
In order to gain a glimpse into his feelings, you may want to try to cast a simple love spell on your man. Whether attracting him or magnifying your attractiveness, a touch to the magic realm can help you form a perfect love.
Here are a couple of signs he is scared of his feelings for me – check now!
How to Tell If a Guy Likes You But is Hiding It
There are several reasons explaining why a guy is terrified of making a move:
- He doesn’t want to ruin the friendship if you happen to be his friend
- Either he or you has an ex and he doesn’t want to complicate things
- Maybe he’s emotionally unavailable and afraid of being rejected
- He is confused with his own feelings and unable to admit it at this moment
Until he figures things out, get ready for his approach!
#1: His stare
You will immediately feel weird once a man stares intensely at you. It’s like he is watching you, and your gut somehow lets you know that he probably wants to have you in his life.
You wish you could freeze time. Once your eyes catch his sight, it could break the moment; that’s why you don’t want him to know that you already recognize his eyes are on you. It’s not a good idea to interrupt the stare he is giving you; nevertheless, he will instantly realize his feelings for you if you do.
The fact of him liking you scares him a lot. In case you see his ‘I fall for you’ stare, then just enjoy it and leave him alone.
#2: His behavior
Is true love when he ignores you?
If you are his friend, let’s observe his behavior because it will surely change.
There will be an awkward atmosphere between you and him once he knows that he’s developed special feelings with his good friend. Both of you have never thought of fallen in love with the person put safely in the friend zone. You must try hard to not display your emotions because the guy will also cover his with a poker-face.
Did you and the man have an affectionate friendship, with friendly hugs and a bunch of physical contact?
However, that person suddenly becomes more formal and distant – this change in his behavior is a sign telling he is worrying about letting you know his feelings and is trying to act normally.
Read about how your ex asks you to come back after a breakup here!
#3: His mood
You find him keep blowing hot and cold.
You may think there’s nothing happening between the two of you as it is going smoothly and you’ve been on a few romantic dates with him. Nonetheless, he is probably struggling deep inside and could have ups and downs once feeling the presence of his fear.
Don’t be surprised if he stares at you affectionately in one moment, and the next thing he does is acting distant from you. Sometimes, his love towards you can overwhelm him a bit and make him hesitant.
What to do when he returns at the moment you’re ready to let him go?
#4: His jealousy
Even though he says nothing, the guy seems to get jealous whenever seeing you surrounded by other guys.
While he is scared of his feelings for you, there’s no way he think of admitting his jealousy. As a result, awkward conversations will appear between you and him; in this case, you’re advised to take notice of his body language and demeanor.
The way he treats and behaves around you will immediately alter as soon as seeing you interact with another man. For example, his face will turn a bit red, and he may stare at you while gritting his teeth – let me tell you, he hardly keeps his possessiveness in check and recognizes what he is showing; that’s why your guy will never admit his jealousy tendency.
He may fear, but that doesn’t stop him from liking you.
#5: His lack of confidence
When he knows he likes you, meaning he has to deal with a bundle of nerves.
Not all guys can be confident around ladies; in fact, some have a very tough time because of their nerves, especially if they are particularly next to the women they like.
You notice that he sweats like crazy and acts a bit silly when having a conversation with you. Don’t laugh at him! Instead, this is the clearest sign telling he is interested in you although he’s too coward to reveal the truth.
Your man lacks confidence in love because he’s afraid of doing something stupid and then screwing up everything. His big pride doesn’t allow him to mess up anything; thus, he’s terrified with the idea that he may ruin it and lose you for good.
Take this as a solid indicator that you’re important to him!
#6: His shyness
He basically never asks you out due to his reserved nature.
Keep in mind that your man may be the shy type of person. It doesn’t mean he cannot take the initiative or does not want to hang out with you. Actually, he has trouble of finding the right moment.
If you are in love with a shy guy, please never force him or make him feel pushed. It’s much better to be patient and take things slow – he will bring all the happiness to you once he gets ready.
“Is he fighting his feelings for me?”
Figuring out whether a man is having romantic feelings for you is generally tough because he is a complex creature. He likes you, but sometimes he’s too afraid of letting you know his inner emotions.
Timing in a relationship is everything!
In case you eager to find out if a man wants to be with you or not, then the most straightforward way is to ask him directly. Tell yourself to accept his answer with a positive attitude because the answer may differ from your expectation.
I met a man he’s 66 and I’m 53 his friends told me he’s to shy feels unworthy of any woman he shows lack of confidence shy and low self esteem we talked for a couple of weeks we were fine then I called him at work and now hes to busy to talk to me anymore he showed interest he looked at me smiled at me and would call me by my name we had a talk in March about I knew he would never be interested in me and he said he was interested in me then I told him I fell and needed surgery he asked me is it serious???????? I said yes
Adrian McKinney says
Let him know…or feel that you’re in touch with your own. You’re a safe space & that you understand who he is already but want him to verbalize it. You can wait, give him those knowing looks with a genuine, accepting smile when he shares something vulnerable. Give him your full attention in those moments & pick up any hints he may be giving by letting him know you heard them loud & clear. If he likes you & he’s too shy, he will probably leave a trail of breadcrumbs for you to pick up…desperately hoping you do!